Part 2: Old friends 4 sale

People keep sending me messages to ask what exactly happened with that ex-friend (see the 'Old friends for sale' post), so i figured i'd write things down here.

Well, while it's true that we were friends for years, and to some it might have seemed that we were 'best buds', it was always with the awareness that you were not allowed to do anything negative, as that could turn things around in a blink of the eye.

Which is what happend multiple times before, but this time i'm making it permanent because nobody needs a toxic friendship.

At some time we were playing snooker at his place and i said i felt his table was running 'off', i knew what i saw as on slow paced shots i actually saw the ball drifting offline.

He wasn't pleased with those comments then, although weeks later when he had the cloth replaced he admitted his table plates were actually broken which caused that.
Should still have that video somewhere.

In general there was always something he needed and i needed to assist with.
When he needed a practice opponent i went to his place, even when i had plenty of other things to do.
When he threw out a league team member for being too aggressive he asked me to replace him, i did, i replaced him every week for almost a year.

When he had a tournament which required a long drive, like few hours, i took him in my car and got him there, free of charge, kinda each time he didn't feel like doing the drive himself.
When he needed cue tips or chalk i ordered them for him, or brought them from England and brought them to his place.

He wanted a ball cleaning machine from China, i found it cheap on AliExpress, i ordered 2 and waited months for them to arrive.

He needed a cue case long enough for a 62 inch cue, i found and ordered one for him on ebay, for a great price.

He wanted a satellite dish like me to watch the UK tv channels, i assisted on that too.

At some point he started a fundraiser to pay for his trip to the ability games in Thailand, i of course contributed.
He wanted a camera to hang up in his practise area, i ordered it for him and delivered, after ordering multiple myself to test and find the best model with the best viewing angle, i spent weeks of free time and hundreds of Euros getting the best i could for him.

Before he had his practice room, he was looking into having it built but cancelled his garden house order because he didn't like the price raise but didn't have a alternative.
I recommended the company Decock to him, which is where he ordered, and where i also ordered my garden room.

Only saw him again once since then, at a DMT tournament, and no he didn't seem happy to see me there, he seemed scared and even threatened to 'have me thrown out'.

No fckn clue what exactly his problem is, i doubt he knows himself, i hear from people that he's talking badly about me to just about all my friends, i don't do such things, apart from this page i never talk about him, not worth spending time on but i'm still considering reporting how he treated me to WDBS as i feel they need to be warned about it, as he could and probably will do similar things to a more vulnerable person with a handicap there.

Anyway, for the people that want a summary what exactly happened:
1- One moment we were friends and chatted daily, meet weekly.
2- I had 3 heart attacks March 7 2024 and had urgent heart surgery
3- 5 days later i declined taking a call from him about a PC issue because i was still recovering from surgery and my wife wouldn't have appreciated getting nervous about problem solving.

And just that declination was enough for him to de-friend and block me, and throw away the hundreds of things i done for him in the past, that's it, end of story, so if you wonder what i did, the answer is: nothing.

As you can see in the above text i did everything one can do to keep someone happy.

I am a victim here in this case and not the aggressor.

Anyone wih a sane mind would understand that a person needs some peace & quiet after Multi heart attacks and heart surgery but he isn't one of those people with sane minds, this is why people need to know about this in order to protect themselves.

Our - very long - whatsapp chat has been sent to meta as official proof and yes i kept a secure copy of it